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You live in a world that wants to take you and your children captive. The goal of this captivity is to have Christians follow the ways of Satan rather than the ways of Christ (Colossians 2:8 and Ephesians 2:1-3). In the book, Instructing a Child's Heart, Tedd and Margy Tripp give a strong warning about being captured by the surrounding godless culture. Parents, your children are being raised in a hostile world. For Americans, this hostility has been obfuscated by the past influence of Christian thought. But this influence has been steadily eroding.
The Super Bowl is a major cultural event. Today's post contains thoughts about this year's game. I'll also include links to previous posts about this game. It is important to think biblically about this highly visible part of our culture. Take a look at this post and the previous ones and let us know your thoughts!
The Super Bowl and Proverbs 4:23 part 1 & part 2
The Super Bowl and Your Heart's Orientation
Greg Doyle is a writer for CBS Sports. He is a good sports reporter and I enjoy his work. I also believe that he represents what many think about the role of sports in our culture. As you may know, Tim Tebow and his mother are going to be featured in an ad sponsored by Focus on the Family during this year's Super Bowl. Mr. Doyle provides this description of what he thinks the ad will be like:
Thanks again to Jacob for his
comment and question about marriage. Jacob begins by asking this question:
What I haven't been able to wrap my
mind around is how "A man shall leave his father and mother and cleave
unto his wife" has been accepted in Christian circles as meaning a legal
union recognized by the state, stamped on paper, with all the benefits that the
government can throw at you for being married.
To answer this question it is
important to understand our social history in chronological order. It is
possible to look at our country and culture today and conclude that the church
is seeking validation from the state with regard to marriage. But time and the
decreasing impact of the church on our culture has blurred the lines between
church and state. In reality the state first drew its understanding of marriage
from the church and Scripture. Historically, in the United States marriage has
been understood as an institution ordained by God for the good of all people. A
reading of the literature concerning the laws of this country will leave you
with no other conclusion. From the April 11, 1890, edition of the New York
Times, we read this quotation, attributed to the first Chief Justice of the
Supreme Court, John Jay: "But however they may be established there is nothing
we look for with more certainty than the general principle that Christianity is
the law of the land."
Jacob raises an important question in his comments about "What is a Marriage?" His asks what is the appropriate role of the state, if any, in determining what makes a marriage binding. He is asking, in effect, do Christians need the state to validate marriage? His unedited comments are posted below.
This is the sort of question for which Christians, particularly Christian parents, must have clear, direct answers. Thanks to Jacob for asking this probing question. What is the biblical answer? How would you answer this question for your children? Give it some thought. I will post my response tomorrow.
This past Monday,
March 9, 2009, President Obama reversed George W. Bush’s executive order
regarding human embryonic stem cell research. In supporting his decision
President Obama used extraordinary reasoning. He stated that scientific
decisions should be based upon facts, not ideology. The President’s new
executive order will have a major impact on your parenting. What does this have
to do with parenting? That’s the critical question, but we need a little more
information before giving the answer.
First, here is the
President’s quote in context:
"Our
government has forced what I believe is a false choice between sound science
and moral values," Obama declared, as he signed documents changing U.S.
science policy and removing what some researchers have said were shackles on
their work. "It is about ensuring that scientific data is never distorted
or concealed to serve a political agenda — and that we make scientific
decisions based on facts, not ideology," Obama said. (March 10, 2009 AP)To clarify, here is how
The American Heritage Dictionary defines ideology:
1. The body of ideas reflecting the social needs and
aspirations of an individual, group, class, or culture. 2. A set of
doctrines or beliefs that form the basis of a political, economic, or other
system.
So President Obama is saying that a decision to destroy
human embryos is a decision that should not be based upon a set of ideas,
doctrine or beliefs that define a culture. This is shocking. Here is another
point to help frame the seriousness of this issue. The Boston Globe
reported on the President's order in its March 10th edition.
Included in the article is a succinct comment about embryonic stem cell
research:
Human embryonic stem cells have the
capacity to develop into any tissue in the body, such as insulin-producing
cells that might eventually be used to treat diabetes, or neurons that could
replace ones that die off during Lou Gehrig's disease. The potent cells are
seen as important research tools, as well as promising treatments. But they
have caused much political and ethical debate because human embryos are
destroyed when the cells are extracted.
The Boston Globe believes that the destruction of human
embryos is subject to ethical debate. Apparently, the President does not.
This executive order then, has important implications for
your family. The logical conclusion from the President’s remarks is that
science and ethics can be divorced from each other. When your child learns
scientific data in the context of this line of thinking, he must not consider
the data as having ethical implications. Scientific facts stand alone. But is a
"scientific fact" reliable? Many of us were taught the scientific
fact that there are nine planets In our solar system. But now it is possible
that there are only eight planets, because Pluto might be only a dead comet
instead of a planet. The nature of science is discovery, not dogma. Science, by
its nature, is a dynamic process. Scientific “facts” are properly understood as
things to be tested and retested. In order for these facts to have constructive
meaning they must be placed in an ideological framework. Your children need to
know this. Apart from placement within some kind of worldview, a scientific
fact has no direction for good or evil. For example, the process of splitting
an atom is a scientific fact. But this fact has profound ideological
implications. This process can be used to provide power for light bulbs, run a
huge aircraft carrier, or be the instrument of destruction for hundreds of
thousands of people. To say that the decision to split an atom must be made
apart from ideological considerations is unthinkable. The same is true for the
decision to destroy human embryos in order to accomplish a potential greater
good. This decision has huge ideological import: for the sake of attempting to
cure a lethal disease, it is now deemed appropriate to destroy living human
embryos. And further, the President is saying that this is a scientific
decision only and has nothing to do with ideology!
Parents, that is just a little information on a large topic,
but it is enough to show why you must be concerned. Only biblical truth,
properly used to form a biblical worldview, provides the wisdom to navigate the
treacherous waters to which science has opened the door. You must not leave the
idea of worldview to the academic ivory tower while the waters are flooding the
homes and the marketplace. Forming a biblical worldview starts when you rise
up, when you lie down and when you walk along the way. Talk with your pastor,
your friends at church and others. Do not let your children believe that the
noble cause of scientific research justifies the taking of life. Like it or
not, postmodernism has come to your living room. You must talk about this with
your children. Ideology matters. It matters for life and death.
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These days everyone is talking about bailouts. Whether on
the economic or social front, things seem to be falling apart. Whether you are
catching the headlines on Drudge, or the details on Fox News, or USA Today, the
message is all the same. There is no way out without a bailout. As you watch,
read or listen to the experts in these amazing times, the most important factor
is always missing from the analysis and reporting. Talk show monologues,
no-spin comments, and the latest from the financial markets—all have a message
of catastrophe. But no one talks about the One who controls it all. While man
panics, God works his plan. There is a message to be heeded in these troubled
days. God is the Lord of all the earth. God is Sovereign over the marketplace.
He is the King of governments. That is the message of the Bible, but it is not
the message of the world and its news media. It is not the message of our
governments. But even so, it is the message of Scripture, the only reliable
source of truth. What does God say?
"Be still, and
know that I am God;
I will be exalted among the nations,
I will be exalted in the earth."
The LORD Almighty is
with us;
the God of Jacob is our fortress. —Psalm 46:10-11
This message was not intended only for Israelites of 3,000
years ago. It is a timeless message that is also for today. Here is the
question – is this your message, or are you too looking for a bailout? God
promises that his Word will provide a way out of every temptation. He says that
his promises provide everything that is needed for life and godliness. God was
not caught by surprise, as our government leaders appear to have been, by the
rapid change in the global economy. He has planned all things for the good of
his people. Psalm 46 gives the reason for your stability in troubled times:
1 God is
our refuge and strength,
an ever-present help in trouble.
2 Therefore we will not fear, though the
earth give way
and the mountains fall into the heart of
the sea, …
There is trouble, to be sure. But God is our strength and
refuge. Remember, he is not merely an observer in these tumultuous times.
Rather, the instability that is all around you is meant to point you toward the
One who is stable, the only one who can be trusted for wisdom that is always
reliable. I am reminded of a quote from C.S. Lewis. In answer to the question
if Aslan [the lion] is safe, the answer
is, "'Course he isn't safe. But he's good. He's the King, I tell you.'
" The earth, the financial markets, may give way and fall into the sea.
That certainly does not appear to be safe. But what is certain is that God is
your refuge and strength. God is good.
Parents, your children hear of all the uncertainty. They
hear the sound bites. They see worried teachers and folks at church. They may
be troubled in ways that are less than obvious. The best thing you can do for
your children is not to seek a bailout, but to turn to God as your refuge and
strength. He is your help in trouble. Our culture has ignored Paul’s warning to
Timothy, not to hope in wealth because it is uncertain. Perhaps because of
advances in technology people have come to think of wealth as something that
can be managed and made secure. Financial analysts use sophisticated computer
models and forecasting programs to attempt to anticipate any eventual outcome.
But for all of our sophistication, wealth is no more certain today than it was
2,000 years ago, when Paul wrote to Timothy. (I Timothy 6:17-19) Wealth is no
more certain than life itself. Just as you cannot guarantee that you will be
here tomorrow, you cannot guarantee that your money will be here tomorrow.
Economic forecasters have ignored what James has to say about business
transactions:
Now listen, you who say,
"Today or tomorrow we will go to this or that city, spend a year there,
carry on business and make money."Why, you do not even know what will
happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little
while and then vanishes. Instead, you ought to say, "If it is the Lord's
will, we will live and do this or that." As it is, you boast and brag. All
such boasting is evil. James 4:13-16
Think about the Holy Spirit’s declaration that financial
forecasting, business planning, personal estate planning, stock portfolio and
401K management—without acknowledging that these things work only if God wills
them to happen—is evil. That’s right, evil. Attempting to be prudent with
finances, without acknowledging that nothing will happen without God’s
approval, is foolish and evil. There are many reasons that may be given for the
current financial mess. But the most important reason is missing. People may
think they have been wise about finances, but they have been foolish about God.
Christians must have the courage to analyze the current financial crisis in
light of the truth of the Holy Spirit’s words in James. Modern culture attempts
to live as if God does not exist. Unborn babies are slaughtered. Marriage
between a man and a woman is said to be discriminatory and bigoted. Finances
are thought to have nothing to do with God. Government must ignore God.
Yes, modern culture has boasted and bragged. And now God has called its bluff.
It is not time for a bailout – it is time for repentance and humility.
God has told us what happens when
men become arrogant. God is a gracious God. And now He is graciously calling
the world to turn to him in brokenness and repentance. You have a powerful
message to give to your children, your church, and your community. No one in
the media is bringing this message, but the church must do so. We must put
aside thoughts of financial rescue and earthly wealth, and look for riches that
are true riches. We must become rich toward God. It is time to answer the
question, "Where is your treasure?"
This article is one that I wrote for the Shepherd Press
Newsletter. I am posting it in the blog
for two reasons.
First – I strongly believe that we must see these uncertain
times as a call to turn to God in humility.
Our current financial woes are not a random event.
Second – I want to bring to your attention a new emphasis in
the Shepherd Press Newsletter. Each week I will be writing an article in the
newsletter about what the Bible has to say about some aspect of current events.
The newsletter article will have a different focus from the blog as it will reflect
primarily on what is happening in our world. There will always be an
application about how these events impact your family. If you have not
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Thanks again for your continued support of the blog. I hope
that the newsletter articles will be a blessing to you.
As we conclude this series on gaming, there is one more
question that remains: Can Christians engage in gaming with a good conscience?
The answer, I believe, is yes, given a significant qualifier: This pursuit must be done with biblical
wisdom. Wisdom is the skill that comes from a deep passionate love of God’s
truth. You may have been born with intelligence, precocity, and a good memory,
but with regard to wisdom, you were born a fool. Wisdom is a skill that may
only be acquired through great energy and faith. Protection from the allure of
gaming comes from a vigorous pursuit of wisdom. Take a moment to read Proverbs
1:30-2:6.
30 since they would
not accept my advice
and spurned my rebuke,
31 they will eat
the fruit of their ways
and be filled with the fruit of their
schemes.
32 For the
waywardness of the simple will kill them,
and the complacency of fools will destroy
them;
33 but whoever
listens to me will live in safety
and be at ease, without fear of
harm."
1 My son, if you
accept my words
and store up my commands within you,
2 turning your
ear to wisdom
and applying your heart to understanding,
3 and if you
call out for insight
and cry aloud for understanding,
4 and if you
look for it as for silver
and search for it as for hidden treasure,
5 then you will
understand the fear of the LORD
and find the knowledge of God.
6 For the LORD
gives wisdom,
and from his mouth come knowledge and
understanding.
This passage is really an extension of Proverbs 1:7. It
describes an earnest, energetic, almost frantic pursuit of wisdom and
understanding. For Christians, the pursuit of wisdom must not be casual or
sporadic. The casual pursuit of wisdom is no match for the powerful attraction
of electronic gaming. You and your children must have your wisdom skills finely
honed in order to even think wisely about what gaming activity, if any, should be enjoyed.
Developing this skill of wisdom is the result of having a mind
renewed by the redemptive power of Christ. As we mentioned earlier, you won’t
find the term electronic gaming in any concordance. But if you give
yourself to the pursuit of wisdom as if your life depended on it—and it really
does (Deut. 32:44-47)—then you will be building the principial base you need in
order to evaluate the impact of gaming. Let me stress this again: you must begin with the passionate acquisition
of wisdom before you or your kids even think about gaming.
This challenge is the same one given by Paul to Timothy.
Paul is calling Timothy to warfare that yields a good conscience: "This
charge I entrust to you, Timothy, my child, in accordance with the prophecies
previously made about you, that by them you may wage the good warfare, 19 holding faith and a good conscience… " I Timothy 1:18-19.
You must be just as prepared for warfare as Timothy was. If
your children see this commitment in you, you will indeed be holding out the
word of life to them.
You see, once we have laid the groundwork, the particular
answer to a question—like what to do about gaming—need not be long and
complicated. Please read and reread the passage in Proverbs referenced above.
To apply this passage faithfully takes great wisdom and courage. It takes great
wisdom and courage to engage in gaming that glorifies our great God. This is
the vision you want to give your children. The Christian life is much more
about being strong and courageous in pursuit of glory than it is about trying
to figure out what not to do.
Let me know your
thoughts and if you have any questions or additional things to consider.
Here is brief summary of the posts on gaming to date.
There are at least two defining biblical principles that can
be applied to gaming:
1. Gaming must not detract
from a biblically productive life.
2. Gaming, if it is to be
done, must proceed from faith.
Proverbs 12:11 demonstrates that electronic gaming can
definitely lead to a lack of productivity. ("11
He who works his land will have abundant food, but he who chases fantasies
lacks judgment." niv) The next
issue, then, is to understand what drives the desire for gaming. This was
examined in the post on gaming and pursuit. Finally, in the last post, we began
to look at how to offer a biblical alternative. We’ll pick up that thought now.
Man was made to pursue greatness. If Adam had not sinned,
our lives would have been completely productive and purposeful. Bringing honor to
God would have been a 24/7 labor of delight and love. We all would have known
each night the sweet sleep that follows productive days of hard work for God’s
glory. Even to write these words is heartbreaking. I think of all the things
that I could have done, and at times I am overwhelmed by the ravages of sin in
this area of productivity. Sin has and is calling God’s people to a life that
is counterproductive to God’s glory. Teenagers who are capable of great things
are corrupted by games masquerading as meaningful pursuits. Adults who could be
participating in adding to the reputation of God are instead captivated by chasing
rabbit trails on Facebook and watching reality TV that is contrived to appeal
to human vanities. What plagues the gamers often plagues their parents as well.
In the last post I suggested that we place gaming in the
context of creation, the fall and redemption. It is only in this context that
the real damage done by excessive gaming can be seen. Our culture is attempting
with renewed vigor to rid itself of a Christian worldview. By stripping away
the wonder of creation and the hope of redemption in Christ we are left with
only the perspective of the fall. In our culture there is no appreciation for man as he was created, only as he
is evolving. Thus, there is no need for redemption. Man’s fallen state has
become the norm. In order to think biblically about life as Christians we must
consider all three perspectives. What could life have been like? How has sin
distorted what could have been? How does the redemptive work of Christ allow us
to redeem that which was lost? Colossians 2:8 warns against being captivated by
a worldview that considers only our fallen state. "See to it that no
one takes you captive through hollow and deceptive philosophy, which depends on
human tradition and the basic principles of this world rather than on Christ."
The human
traditions of this world know only the perspective of the fall and, therefore,
try to deceive us into thinking that man is not really fallen, but simply evolving.
Yes, man is flawed, but he is getting better. Creation and redemption are ideals born of myth and oppressive religion.
An evolving man has no need of a Savior and redemption; he will heal himself.
So what does this
have to with gaming? Well, it explains many of the dark areas of electronic
gaming. Themes of demons, hell and graphic violence are mixed together with
themes of conquest and challenge. Sin is just dark fiction—not reality, and
certainly not damning. So these themes are not wrong in themselves. There is no
God to offend, only senses to stimulate. This is the result of living life
without a true understanding of both creation and the fall.
This understanding
of the creation and the fall should help to answer a question asked by one
reader. She asked for a concrete example of this statement: conformity to the world means to attempt to
change the impact of the fall without the vision of creation. Here is an
example as it relates to gaming. You see your teenager locked into gaming mode.
You know he is consumed by the games that he plays. His schoolwork is
suffering. He has no time for family or friends outside of his gaming milieu.
If you look at the problem of too much gaming only from the perspective of the
fall, you may offer a solution that is just as defective as the problem. If all
you do is to limit the time spent on gaming or attempt to eliminate the games
completely you haven’t addressed why he plays. You have only addressed how he
plays. This is looking at the problem without the vision of creation.
We are made to pursue
great and meaningful things. But since the fall we naturally pursue things that
please us rather than God. Some may pursue excellence in sports or the arts or
business achievements. Others may pursue excellence in the escapist world of games.
The gamer can’t tell the difference. And indeed, without living for the glory
of God there isn’t much difference. As Ecclesiastes
says, life without God is meaningless, empty and vain.
How do you help bring about change in your gamer? When the human
drive for conquest and pursuit that has been fueled by intense gaming, trying
to stop or redirect this drive is like trying to stop a runaway train. If you
don't understand and address the reason this drive is so compelling, you will
only frustrate both yourself and your teenager. But, if you can help him see
biblically why gaming is so compelling, you may be able to help him see the
dangers in gaming for what they truly are. The only truly satisfying
alternative to the driving allure of gaming lies in the redemptive work of
Christ.
Parents, before you can pass on this redemptive
understanding to your teenagers, it must first be what drives you. You must
have a clear vision that is shaped by the wonder of creation and the hope of
redemption. This is where the second defining principle comes into play. To understand
the redemptive work of Christ, you must first be driven by faith in Christ. We
will take this up in the next post.
In the last post on gaming we looked at the difference
between the pursuit of productivity and the pursuit of fantasy. The operative
word here is pursuit. Proverbs 12:11 contrasts someone who productively
works his land with someone who chases or pursues empty fantasies. Both
individuals are in active pursuit of a goal. Sometimes the one chasing
fantasies becomes obsessed with his pursuit, even though it is meaningless.
This is true of hard-core gamers. Everything else in life becomes secondary—the
game is the thing. While your children may not be at the level of the seriously
hard-core, it is not difficult to see when the games pull them toward
obsession. You may think to yourself, what is the big deal, can’t he see
this is wasting his life? If only he could be this dedicated to do doing
something that matters!
In order to understand the attraction of electronic gaming
you must first understand that both the pursuit of things that are productive
and the pursuit of things that are empty flow from the way that God made us. I
can hear someone saying (even across cyberspace!) God didn’t make us to spend hours playing Grand Theft Auto! No, but
he did create man in his own image and task him with the responsibility to
subdue the earth and have dominion over its creatures.
And God blessed them.
And God said to them, "Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and
subdue it and have dominion over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the
heavens and over every living thing that moves on the earth." Genesis 1:28
Humans were created by God and instructed to subdue and
dominate the creation. This command was pre-Fall. So this task, before sin, would
have been carried out with wisdom, gentleness and with great energy! It would have been consuming in a good and
wonderful way. Adam’s first tasks were to name the animals (a form of dominion
in itself) and to guard and care for the garden. The idea of Adam and Eve
wandering around the garden with nothing more to do than soak up the sunshine
is not biblical. Rather, they were created in the image of God to develop and
govern the earth itself, for the glory of God. What a breathtaking vocation!
Like so many other good things, sin corrupted this perfect,
glorious pursuit and turned humans toward the pursuit of their own desires and
pleasures. What started as a delight to the eye for Eve has become wanton
lusting for eyes that have no concern for the honor of God. We see evidence of
this selfish pursuit written in the blood stained pages of human history. We
see humans driven to pursue personal glory no matter what the cost to them and
to others. And yes, we see some driven to pursue the beckoning world of gaming,
even if it costs them dearly in terms of relationships with others and
productivity in the “real” world. The reality is that if man is not driven to
pursue God’s glory, he will pursue his own, often not understanding fully why—not
fully understanding that he was made with a drive to achieve and dominate.
The total sensory environment provided by today’s gaming
world is seductively enticing. It entices the eyes and tempts the cravings of
the flesh. With physical feedback—from joysticks and game controllers to
surround sound, life-like graphics, and finally, to themes of escape and
conquest—electronic gaming appeals to the way God made us. Gaming appeals to man’s
ultimate function in life to subdue and to dominate. Of course, apart from the
redemptive work of Christ, that purpose has become tragically distorted and
perverted. Even Christians are tempted to pursue dominion for personal gain,
quite apart from the glory of God. The reason the gamer is so enthralled by the
games he plays is that he was made for the pursuit. Thus, the attraction
is real. It is strong. It is captivating. At this level, the attraction is similar
to the attraction of pornography. Man was also made to be a sexual being, but
the Fall has corrupted that purpose as well. So tens of millions of people,
young and old, are driven to pursue the world of online pornography instead of
pursuing sex for the glory of God. Seduction works by offering to satisfy a
valid, legitimate desire by illegitimate means.
So, this is the first key to dealing with the power of
gaming. Understand that we were made for pursuit, for dominion, for battle.
However, because of our sin and depravity since the Fall, the natural
inclination of our hearts is to battle against the purposes that God made us
for. We battle for ourselves and the sinful cravings of the flesh
(Ephesians 2:1-3). We were born as warriors for ourselves and for Satan, not
for God. Now, by God’s grace, Christians
are called to fight against these things. Indeed, we must be better fighters
than the world around us. In I Timothy 6, Paul urges Timothy to fight the good
fight. The way to end the pursuit of gaming is to take up a different pursuit—the
fight for the glory of God in all of life. Simply putting restrictions in place
to limit gaming will only add fuel to a raging fire. The hard-core gamer is
locked in a mortal battle, but it is not the one on his screen—it is the one in
his heart.
Since people were designed by God to take up the fight for
glory and dominion in a good way, that must be the alternative offered to your
children and to those captivated by gaming. There is a better pursuit than the
one offered by the gaming world. That is why we looked in a previous post at
examining your children’s schedules. If there are large chunks of open time in a
child's world, many voices will tempt him to empty, deceptive pursuits. Dame
Folly calls loudly to those not driven by the pursuit of the glory of God.
Simply saying no to gaming will not silence the seductive call of Folly.
Therefore, is all gaming bad? How do you instill purpose and
drive for the glory of God that can compete with gaming? The answers are
coming. Stay tuned.
He who works his land
will have abundant food,
but he who chases fantasies lacks
judgment. Proverbs 12:11
Let's look first at how gaming
can detract from a productive life. As we do, consider this: to the extent that gaming detracts from or
lessens being productive, to that extent it must be avoided. Tremper Longman’s
commentary on this Proverb captures the essence of the problem. Longman
translates the phrase "...he who chases fantasies lacks judgment." with the phrase "...he
who pursues emptiness lacks heart."
…The emphasis here is not so much on
lack of exertion, but rather that energy is misdirected.He goes on to say that what is pursued in
this situation lacks substance. (Longman,
274)
Longman is perceptive in
focusing on misdirected energy rather than the game itself. Many gamers put a
huge amount of time and energy into their gaming. Gamers are seriously
committed to gaming, even if other, legitimate priorities suffer. The
comparison here is with a farmer who thinks of other ways to get money, while
neglecting his farm. Thus, instead of working his land, he schemes or chases
fantasies and ends up without food for himself and his family. The farmer may
think long and hard about acquiring money or about where he would rather be—but
he will not be productive, and he will be hungry.
Electronic media has provided
the occasion for many to be distracted from the work God has called them to and
driven by fantasies instead. You don’t have to be a hard core gamer with the
latest, most powerful computer to be drawn in. Hours can be wastd playing
Solitaire or some other “low tech” game. The danger is that the energy spent in
the pursuit of games—fantasies—will lead to a lack of productivity in areas
where there is clear responsibility.
So the issue in gaming becomes
pursuit of productive things rather than the pursuit of fantasies. Why not take
time to evaluate the impact of gaming (broadly defined) on the lives of your
children and those close to you? Think through these considerations:
In what areas is productivity being lost?
Is there a clear sense of meaning and purpose in the lives of
your children? Or do they have large chunks of time that are seemingly
discretionary?
Are there issues in their lives where they are unsettled and
troubled?
What good
things could be accomplished if less time were given to gaming?
Perhaps you can think of some additional considerations. In any event, think these things over and make some observations about them. We will get back to this in the next one or two posts.

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