For most, the statement
that the gospel matters for toddlers lacks a sense of immediacy. This seems
more suitable for older children and adults. However, this perspective reveals a common
underlying problem. The problem is that information transfer is seen as the
primary method of bringing people to Christ. In other words, you tell someone
about Christ and hope they will respond. The person to whom you are speaking is
the one who holds the cards. Your role
is ultimately passive.
Biblically, the spread of the gospel is more
appropriately tied to the imagery of search and rescue in a time of war. The setting is not one of communication of
information in a time of peace. In
Matthew 28 Jesus says that all authority in heaven and on earth has been given
to him. Then, he instructs his followers
to make disciples of all the nations. Christ does not say to give information
about the gospel, he simply says to make disciples. In the first chapter of
Colossians Paul says that we have been rescued from the domain of darkness and
brought into the kingdom of light. This passage describes rescuing people from
imminent danger. These two passages call
to mind the classic warfare waged between light and darkness. This is how we
should consider Christ's command to bring the gospel to all nations. The
Scriptures do not paint a picture of asking someone's permission to tell them
about Jesus Christ. Rather, the picture is of someone committed to a mission of
searching for and rescuing the lost. This mission defines life itself for those
who undertake it.
What does this have to do
with toddlers? Parents who view presenting
the gospel as primarily information transfer will lack a sense of urgency. I do
not mean that this parent is unconcerned about the spiritual condition of his
child. He may be deeply concerned. However, seeing the presentation of the
gospel as transfer of information means waiting for when the child is willing
to engage in this transfer. The parent
who sees the presentation of the gospel as one of search and rescue will have an
immediate sense of urgency. Thus, even before the toddler can speak, he will be
interacting with parents who see the gospel
as the most important reality of life. This child will hear his parents
passionately talking to others about the gospel. He will hear his own actions
explained in terms of his need of the gospel even before he can articulate a response. He will see and hear that his parents are
driven by truths that transcend the temporal. This is the process outlined in
Deuteronomy 6. The very thoughts of God, revealed in Scripture, are graven into
the hearts of this toddler's parents. These parents are gripped by God's call to
rescue the lost. This mission defines these parents. This is an immense
blessing to our toddler. He is being raised by parents whose mission in life
coincides with God's purpose for each day. That purpose, at least in part, is
to bring honor to his great name through the rescue of the lost.
Practically this toddler
will hear often of the wonder of Jesus Christ. His parents will see his sin as
an opportunity to present the gospel to him and not merely to correct his
behavior. He will live in a home that is
focused on the wonder of a God who forgives sins. This focus leads to joy. Joy
comes from the reality that Jesus is our effective and loving high priest. Living
for the gospel means living with joy.
So, when this toddler
spills a cup of milk because he is still learning how to handle a cup, he is
not scolded. His parents speak lovingly and reassuringly to him. They help him learn
to handle the cup with more precision. He knows that he is more valuable than
spilt milk. He is lovingly disciplined when he sins, but he is also lovingly
embraced when he acts like a 2 year old. He is on the road to knowing what it
means to be loved and being secure. The gospel matters to his parents. In time,
Lord willing, the gospel will also matter to him.
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Jay,
What a radical and Biblical view this is! A corrective that is much needed in our day. I thank God for you and your faithfulness in presenting Christ and the application of the gospel to all areas of our lives.
Richie