One of the more remarkable
examples of peer pressure or fear of man found in the Bible is the story of
Jehoshaphat and King Ahab in 2 Chronicles 18. The Spirit is God was gracious to
provide such a clear and vivid account of the dynamics of peer pressure. There
is much you can use in the chapter to teach your children about this all too common
tendency of making the opinion of others more important than the opinion of
God.
Jehoshaphat, king of Judah,
began his reign by faithfully following God. He was blessed with riches and
honor. However, chapter 18 records that instead of continuing to trust God for
protection, he formed an alliance with King Ahab by marrying Ahab's daughter.
This would supposedly provide protection from those who might attack Judah from
the north. Some years later, Jehoshaphat went down to Samaria, the capital of
Israel, to visit Ahab. Ahab responded by throwing the equivalent of large party
in honor of Jehoshaphat. Now Ahab stood for and practiced all of the things
that Jehoshaphat had worked so diligently to remove from Judah. Note these
words of commendation for Jehoshaphat in 2 Chronicles 17:3-4:
The
LORD was with Jehoshaphat because in his early years he walked in the ways his
father David had followed. He did not consult the Baals but sought the God of
his father and followed his commands rather than the practices of Israel.
But in this later time of
his life, Jehoshaphat became enamored with the apparent lifestyle and success
of one who lived as God's enemy. When Jehoshaphat arrived in Samaria, Ahab asked
Jehoshaphat to join with him in battle against Ramoth Gilead. Jehoshaphat
responded as if the kings were of one mind and heritage. He said, "I am as you
are, and my people as your people; we will join you in the war." This show of
friendship to Ahab was in reality hatred towards God (2 Chronicles 19:1-2;
James 4:4).
This kind of loyalty to men
rather than to God clouds judgment and results in flawed decision making. This
is an essential point to stress, both to yourself and your children. The
balance of 2 Chronicles 18 is as clear an example of yielding to peer pressure
as one could hope to find. The dialogue between Ahab and Jehoshaphat is both
sad and comedic. It shows just how foolish we can be when we attempt to please people.
Here is a brief sketch of the exchange:
Ahab asks Jehoshaphat to go
with him into battle. Jehoshaphat agrees, but then he adds that they should
first seek the counsel of the Lord. At first it seems that perhaps Jehoshaphat
is having second thoughts about his pronouncement of loyalty to Ahab. But
remember, Jehoshaphat has already compromised his loyalty to God by proclaiming
his unity with wicked Ahab. As we shall see, this note of seeking God's
guidance is merely a matter of form.
Ahab then asks the 400
hundred prophets of Baal if he should go to battle. These prophets were not the
Lord's prophets, but Baal's. They, of course, confirm that Ahab should go into
battle with God's blessing. Jehoshaphat still holds out for the right religious
form. He asks is there not a prophet of the Lord that they can inquire of. Ahab
then makes this stunning response:
"There
is still one man through whom we can inquire of the LORD, but I hate him
because he never prophesies anything good about me, but always bad. He is
Micaiah son of Imlah." Vs. 7
Even though Jehoshaphat
rebukes Ahab for this observation, he still acts stupidly. Ahab has one prophet
of the Lord available, but he hates him. His first choice is to seek counsel
from the 400 prophets of Baal. What flawed judgment! Why does Jehoshaphat even consider
going along with this imminent disaster? The answer is that he does not want to
offend King Ahab, the man to whom he has pledged loyalty. Even holding out for
Micaiah to come and prophesy is no indication of wholeheartedly trusting God.
Jehoshaphat's divided loyalty has already crippled his thinking.
We will finish this story
in the next post. But use this intermission in the narrative to consider how quickly
and easily loyalty to those who do not love God can corrupt your thinking.
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