Solomon’s guide to the internet

Posted on August 15, 2014 · Posted in Internet, Wisdom

I realize that Solomon did not have a web page. He didn’t tweet. But that doesn’t mean he can’t help you to know how to navigate the seas of social media.


Parents, here are the three most important things to teach your children about using the internet: 


Verify, Verify, Verify! 


In the world of social media, little is as it seems. You and your children must verify that what you read and see is not just a half-truth or a flat-out deception. For example, Proverbs 18:17 says:


The first to present his case in a dispute seems right,

      until his opponent comes and cross examines him.


This one biblical principle can keep you from deception, heartbreak and even danger. It is too easy to accept texts, tweets, posts, emails, etc., at face value. This is not being cynical, but just realizing that the Bible warns about the deceptive factor present in the human heart.  The online chat can be with a predator. The text or email can sound like a real need, but it may well be only half of the truth. Someone who is struggling may be telling you only one side of the story.


Remember what is important about internet communication:


VERIFY what you hear or read by way of another source. Just because one person or source says something is true, doesn’t make it true. If this is not possible then you must withhold judgement about the truth of what you read.


VERIFY that the person you are communicating with has nothing to gain from the information your receive. Is the person trying to gain your support in a dispute? Are you being asked for information that could compromise you in some way? Is someone else being put in a bad light by what you hear? Are you being intentionally or unintentionally being misled?


VERIFY that the person you are communicating with has done their due diligence in verifying what you are being told. Simply asking “how do you know that” is a great way to avoid gossip.


Someone reading this might well ask, “Well this article is online, how can I trust what you are saying?” 


That is exactly the right question to ask! In this case you know the source of the article, You can know who the author is by checking out the webpage. You have the ability to communicate and ask for verification either by comment or via email from the Shepherd Press web page. You have the ability to check out the background and beliefs of Shepherd Press by checking out that same page.  This is the sort of verification you and your children should engage in with any information gained over social media. Protect yourself and your children by acting on the truth of Proverbs 18:17.


Solomon may not have had internet access. But his access to the truth and wisdom of the Holy Spirit will benefit God’s people for all eternity. 


Jay Younts
Jay Younts is the Shepherd Press blogger. He is the author of Everyday Talk and other materials on parenting. He has been teaching and speaking on parenting issues for 30 years. Jay and his wife, Ruth, live in Fountain Inn, South Carolina. He serves as a ruling elder at Redeemer Presbyterian Church in Moore, South Carolina. He and Ruth have five adult children.